Friday, June 29, 2007
Tessa and swimming
We recently purchased a pool for the back yard ...as you can see Tessa loves it:)
She's done school for the year and is looking forward to summer. She had a great report card a's and b's...she was quite pleased with herself...she worked really hard this year.
She's done school for the year and is looking forward to summer. She had a great report card a's and b's...she was quite pleased with herself...she worked really hard this year.
Tuesday, June 26, 2007
Sunday, May 27, 2007
What children with special needs teach a parent....
i often think about this..but often had a hard time putting into words until last night i read a book...that expressed the things that i think about....people often say ..."oh your children are so lucky to have you".....really it's the other way around..I'm so lucky to have them....they are my biggest blessings in life.
From the book..."I am the child" by C. Freeman...." I am the child....I give you opportunities ..to discover the depth of your character, not mine, the depth of your life, your commitment, your patience , your abilities, the opportunity to explore your spirit more deeply than you imagined possible.I drive you further than you would ever go on your own, working harder, seeking answers to your many questions, creating questions with no answers. (It's true ...my children bring these things out in me)
From the child that can not walk..."My gift to you is to make you aware of your own great fortune, your healthy back and legs, your ability to do for yourself"
(true again...although i still wish with all my heart that Tessa could walk....strangely she doesn't says she likes wheelin around...hmmm...optimistic and a good attitude:)
From the child that is intellectually impaired....."If I don't learn easily you judge me by the worlds measuring stick. What I do know is infinite joy in simple things . i am not burdened as you are with the strifes and conflicts of a more complicated world".
Through this comes the gift of learning to enjoy things like a child would...helps keep one young so they say..guess i'm really putting it to the test.
My children teach me ...innocent trust, unconditional love, respect for others and their uniqueness. They teach me about the sanctity of life and how precious it truly is and not to be taken for granted. I treasure each moment with all my children and step-daughters.
They teach me about giving and for going my own needs. They teach me hope and faith.
They teach me to dream.
From the book..."I am the child" by C. Freeman...." I am the child....I give you opportunities ..to discover the depth of your character, not mine, the depth of your life, your commitment, your patience , your abilities, the opportunity to explore your spirit more deeply than you imagined possible.I drive you further than you would ever go on your own, working harder, seeking answers to your many questions, creating questions with no answers. (It's true ...my children bring these things out in me)
From the child that can not walk..."My gift to you is to make you aware of your own great fortune, your healthy back and legs, your ability to do for yourself"
(true again...although i still wish with all my heart that Tessa could walk....strangely she doesn't says she likes wheelin around...hmmm...optimistic and a good attitude:)
From the child that is intellectually impaired....."If I don't learn easily you judge me by the worlds measuring stick. What I do know is infinite joy in simple things . i am not burdened as you are with the strifes and conflicts of a more complicated world".
Through this comes the gift of learning to enjoy things like a child would...helps keep one young so they say..guess i'm really putting it to the test.
My children teach me ...innocent trust, unconditional love, respect for others and their uniqueness. They teach me about the sanctity of life and how precious it truly is and not to be taken for granted. I treasure each moment with all my children and step-daughters.
They teach me about giving and for going my own needs. They teach me hope and faith.
They teach me to dream.
Catching up on life
well...here I am so far behind...i think i'm ahead:)
Since, i've last posted I've been to Calgary and back...for a conference on down syndrome. Overall, it was very good..lots of good info to sort through and absorb...good tips. One of the best parts of the trip was meeting other people..in particular....Toryn,Linda and Bill....Sandy, Ed and Adam. We met up with them quite often for lunch, dinner and session and the dance. Nice people!!Adam and Toryn are wonderful, fun loving boys:)
more to follow .....
Since, i've last posted I've been to Calgary and back...for a conference on down syndrome. Overall, it was very good..lots of good info to sort through and absorb...good tips. One of the best parts of the trip was meeting other people..in particular....Toryn,Linda and Bill....Sandy, Ed and Adam. We met up with them quite often for lunch, dinner and session and the dance. Nice people!!Adam and Toryn are wonderful, fun loving boys:)
more to follow .....
Thursday, May 3, 2007
Connor's 9 months old today
HAPPY BIRTHDAY CONNOR !!!!! age 9 months today....I took him to get him weighed...he
weighs a whooping 13 pounds 10 ounces....the lady said he should be about 16 pounds to triple his birth weight...which will be August 3rd.....so he has time. He's just a lil boy:)
Tessa got student of the month for April for French....she came home the other day grinning with her certificate and special student of the month book mark.
She's grinning ear to ear today because Hilary Duff is coming to our city for a concert. She loves Hilary Duff:) We'll have to get tickets for sure. I might be standing in line at 5 am...the day the tickets go on sale with baby...lol..I hope not!
here's our newest slideshow....enjoy.
weighs a whooping 13 pounds 10 ounces....the lady said he should be about 16 pounds to triple his birth weight...which will be August 3rd.....so he has time. He's just a lil boy:)
Tessa got student of the month for April for French....she came home the other day grinning with her certificate and special student of the month book mark.
She's grinning ear to ear today because Hilary Duff is coming to our city for a concert. She loves Hilary Duff:) We'll have to get tickets for sure. I might be standing in line at 5 am...the day the tickets go on sale with baby...lol..I hope not!
here's our newest slideshow....enjoy.
Saturday, April 28, 2007
Connor and his accomplishments....
Connor had a busy week this past week...it started with an assessment by a speech therapist, a physiotherapist and a occupational therapist.....they watched Connor to assesss his progress...he impressed them with all that he can do. They were surprized that he does so much. He is in the range of doing everything than an average 6-9 month old child does....the only two things that he isn't doing yet....because we've focused on the steps before these 2 things are...sitting and crawling...now that he is ready those are our 2 areas of focus now...he prefers to stand and will stiffen like a board when you try to get him to sit....so we have to get his attention with toys so he doesn't realize we are making him sit. Crawling....he prefers to be held but is doing better at going for things that he wants on the blanket when surrounded with toys to entice him.
The speech therapist was happy with his progress to date...she said we are all ready doing the 2 things that she would have suggested for us...and those are the "out of the box reading" program and "signing time"...which for those that do not know is a sign language program...some days my head just rings with the songs from the videos...lol...Chris told me he woke up the other night..it was about 3 am...his head was ringing out the songs too.."it's signing time with alex and leah"...."come lets play"...lol
Tessa loves showing Connor sign language she used to know alot of it from having a good friend that used it.
The therapists were all impressed by his strength. He is very strong for a baby that started out floppy (which is what they were expecting still)...he's doing wonderfully.
They wrote down what he is taking nutritionally for his health which btw is very good....they expected him to be stuffy and mucous filled like many children with down syndrome that they see...they kept commenting on that...he takes lots of things for all different reasons...but it's working.
He likes to put out his bottom lip as you will see in a picture above to give kisses now...it's so cute!!!!
April 25th...he said "ma" in the morning and "da" when he was playing with Chris in the afternoon....he babbles a lots....funny things....lots of yeahs....ahhhs....
He loves to wrestle with tessa. He will hold his small bottles on his own...after reaching out to grab it as soon as he sees it.
He has better balance for sitting ,loves reaching for things with either hand,...small things, big things and will transfer toys from hand to hand. He throws stuff on the floor from his bumbo seat. He will hold out his arms for us to pick him up..when we say "up".
Fav things are jumping in jolly jumper , in peoples arms and swinging in his swing...he loves music, books . he will hold his books and stare at the pictures and the words. For his reading program...he stares at the words, keeps an interest in it as long as he doesn't see my face.
When his signing time video is on he stares at it intensely...as if grasping everything in his mind..the music is catchy.....
He recognizes faces of people in his family.He smiles when he sees them, especially Chris.
He wrestles with Tessa almost every morning to wake her up for school...I take him in her room...he lays on her and squirms all over until she's awake and happy.
Connor is mesmerized by his hands...he loves to look at and explore how they move.
He likes eating...if he sees someone eating food he moves his lips as if he's eating too.....he is eating beginner baby food we are not rushing alot of foods to avoid possible allergies..but we are giving him some stuff to get him used to the mechanisms involved in chewing, swallowing food and mouth movements associated with all that for speech down the road.
We are getting more fresh air these days now that it is warmer....last week we walked to dairy queen..it was hot... by the time I got there after pushing the stroller
(with wheels that work like crap...all over the place..it's awful) and pulling or pushing Tessa's wheelchair at the same time..I was exhausted....the air conditioning wasn't on in there..it was so hot....even the ice cream- a georgia mud fudge blizzard... didn't cool me down nor energize me... so I did what any lazy person would do...lol..i called meag to come get us in the van...lol.
Oh well...maybe next time,we'll make it home too:)
I volunteeered at Tessa's school to help a grade 3 class quilt so yesterday was our second attempt at it(i went the week before)...it's going pretty good considering I didn't really know how to quilt...hahaha...gotta learn something new every day.
well...back to house cleaning..i've procrastinated enough today....have a great day!!!
The speech therapist was happy with his progress to date...she said we are all ready doing the 2 things that she would have suggested for us...and those are the "out of the box reading" program and "signing time"...which for those that do not know is a sign language program...some days my head just rings with the songs from the videos...lol...Chris told me he woke up the other night..it was about 3 am...his head was ringing out the songs too.."it's signing time with alex and leah"...."come lets play"...lol
Tessa loves showing Connor sign language she used to know alot of it from having a good friend that used it.
The therapists were all impressed by his strength. He is very strong for a baby that started out floppy (which is what they were expecting still)...he's doing wonderfully.
They wrote down what he is taking nutritionally for his health which btw is very good....they expected him to be stuffy and mucous filled like many children with down syndrome that they see...they kept commenting on that...he takes lots of things for all different reasons...but it's working.
He likes to put out his bottom lip as you will see in a picture above to give kisses now...it's so cute!!!!
April 25th...he said "ma" in the morning and "da" when he was playing with Chris in the afternoon....he babbles a lots....funny things....lots of yeahs....ahhhs....
He loves to wrestle with tessa. He will hold his small bottles on his own...after reaching out to grab it as soon as he sees it.
He has better balance for sitting ,loves reaching for things with either hand,...small things, big things and will transfer toys from hand to hand. He throws stuff on the floor from his bumbo seat. He will hold out his arms for us to pick him up..when we say "up".
Fav things are jumping in jolly jumper , in peoples arms and swinging in his swing...he loves music, books . he will hold his books and stare at the pictures and the words. For his reading program...he stares at the words, keeps an interest in it as long as he doesn't see my face.
When his signing time video is on he stares at it intensely...as if grasping everything in his mind..the music is catchy.....
He recognizes faces of people in his family.He smiles when he sees them, especially Chris.
He wrestles with Tessa almost every morning to wake her up for school...I take him in her room...he lays on her and squirms all over until she's awake and happy.
Connor is mesmerized by his hands...he loves to look at and explore how they move.
He likes eating...if he sees someone eating food he moves his lips as if he's eating too.....he is eating beginner baby food we are not rushing alot of foods to avoid possible allergies..but we are giving him some stuff to get him used to the mechanisms involved in chewing, swallowing food and mouth movements associated with all that for speech down the road.
We are getting more fresh air these days now that it is warmer....last week we walked to dairy queen..it was hot... by the time I got there after pushing the stroller
(with wheels that work like crap...all over the place..it's awful) and pulling or pushing Tessa's wheelchair at the same time..I was exhausted....the air conditioning wasn't on in there..it was so hot....even the ice cream- a georgia mud fudge blizzard... didn't cool me down nor energize me... so I did what any lazy person would do...lol..i called meag to come get us in the van...lol.
Oh well...maybe next time,we'll make it home too:)
I volunteeered at Tessa's school to help a grade 3 class quilt so yesterday was our second attempt at it(i went the week before)...it's going pretty good considering I didn't really know how to quilt...hahaha...gotta learn something new every day.
well...back to house cleaning..i've procrastinated enough today....have a great day!!!
catch up day
Today is my chance to catch up on my blog a lil....
Tessa got a student of the month award last month....here's what was said on the award.....The attribute of the month was courage...."Tessa demonstrates courage everyday. She is able to be different and doesn't let her fears get in the way of her dreams. Way to go!!"
I'm so proud of her!!!!!
Tessa loves horse riding.....she especially loves when they get to trot:)


click on the video of tessa riding her horse......
Tessa got a student of the month award last month....here's what was said on the award.....The attribute of the month was courage...."Tessa demonstrates courage everyday. She is able to be different and doesn't let her fears get in the way of her dreams. Way to go!!"
I'm so proud of her!!!!!
Tessa loves horse riding.....she especially loves when they get to trot:)
click on the video of tessa riding her horse......
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