Saturday, April 28, 2007

Connor and his accomplishments....

Connor had a busy week this past week...it started with an assessment by a speech therapist, a physiotherapist and a occupational therapist.....they watched Connor to assesss his progress...he impressed them with all that he can do. They were surprized that he does so much. He is in the range of doing everything than an average 6-9 month old child does....the only two things that he isn't doing yet....because we've focused on the steps before these 2 things are...sitting and crawling...now that he is ready those are our 2 areas of focus now...he prefers to stand and will stiffen like a board when you try to get him to sit....so we have to get his attention with toys so he doesn't realize we are making him sit. Crawling....he prefers to be held but is doing better at going for things that he wants on the blanket when surrounded with toys to entice him.

The speech therapist was happy with his progress to date...she said we are all ready doing the 2 things that she would have suggested for us...and those are the "out of the box reading" program and "signing time"...which for those that do not know is a sign language program...some days my head just rings with the songs from the videos...lol...Chris told me he woke up the other night..it was about 3 am...his head was ringing out the songs too.."it's signing time with alex and leah"...."come lets play"...lol

Tessa loves showing Connor sign language she used to know alot of it from having a good friend that used it.

The therapists were all impressed by his strength. He is very strong for a baby that started out floppy (which is what they were expecting still)...he's doing wonderfully.
They wrote down what he is taking nutritionally for his health which btw is very good....they expected him to be stuffy and mucous filled like many children with down syndrome that they see...they kept commenting on that...he takes lots of things for all different reasons...but it's working.

He likes to put out his bottom lip as you will see in a picture above to give kisses now...it's so cute!!!!

April 25th...he said "ma" in the morning and "da" when he was playing with Chris in the afternoon....he babbles a lots....funny things....lots of yeahs....ahhhs....
He loves to wrestle with tessa. He will hold his small bottles on his own...after reaching out to grab it as soon as he sees it.

He has better balance for sitting ,loves reaching for things with either hand,...small things, big things and will transfer toys from hand to hand. He throws stuff on the floor from his bumbo seat. He will hold out his arms for us to pick him up..when we say "up".

Fav things are jumping in jolly jumper , in peoples arms and swinging in his swing...he loves music, books . he will hold his books and stare at the pictures and the words. For his reading program...he stares at the words, keeps an interest in it as long as he doesn't see my face.

When his signing time video is on he stares at it intensely...as if grasping everything in his mind..the music is catchy.....

He recognizes faces of people in his family.He smiles when he sees them, especially Chris.

He wrestles with Tessa almost every morning to wake her up for school...I take him in her room...he lays on her and squirms all over until she's awake and happy.

Connor is mesmerized by his hands...he loves to look at and explore how they move.

He likes eating...if he sees someone eating food he moves his lips as if he's eating too.....he is eating beginner baby food we are not rushing alot of foods to avoid possible allergies..but we are giving him some stuff to get him used to the mechanisms involved in chewing, swallowing food and mouth movements associated with all that for speech down the road.

We are getting more fresh air these days now that it is warmer....last week we walked to dairy queen..it was hot... by the time I got there after pushing the stroller
(with wheels that work like crap...all over the place..it's awful) and pulling or pushing Tessa's wheelchair at the same time..I was exhausted....the air conditioning wasn't on in there..it was so hot....even the ice cream- a georgia mud fudge blizzard... didn't cool me down nor energize me... so I did what any lazy person would do...lol..i called meag to come get us in the van...lol.
Oh well...maybe next time,we'll make it home too:)

I volunteeered at Tessa's school to help a grade 3 class quilt so yesterday was our second attempt at it(i went the week before)...it's going pretty good considering I didn't really know how to quilt...hahaha...gotta learn something new every day.

well...back to house cleaning..i've procrastinated enough today....have a great day!!!

catch up day

Today is my chance to catch up on my blog a lil....
Tessa got a student of the month award last month....here's what was said on the award.....The attribute of the month was courage...."Tessa demonstrates courage everyday. She is able to be different and doesn't let her fears get in the way of her dreams. Way to go!!"
I'm so proud of her!!!!!

Tessa loves horse riding.....she especially loves when they get to trot:)

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slideshow.......

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jumping fun

connor loves to jump....in his jumper or on his own....check out his laughter....

Wednesday, April 18, 2007

Connor loves to go in his jolly jumper

watch the video.....click on it...



and when his done..he's really done...zonked out sleeping:)

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Monday, April 16, 2007

IF I HAD MY LIFE TO LIVE OVER - by Erma Bombeck

IF I HAD MY LIFE TO LIVE OVER - by Erma Bombeck
(written after she found out she was dying from cancer).


I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of pretending the earth would go into a holding pattern if I weren't there for the day.
I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage.
I would have talked less and listened more.
I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet was stained, or the sofa faded.
I would have eaten the popcorn in the 'good' living room and worried much less about the dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in the fireplace.
I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his youth.
I would have shared more of the responsibility carried by my husband.
I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day because my hair had just been teased and sprayed.
I would have sat on the lawn with my grass stains.
I would have cried and laughed less while watching television and more while watching life.
I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, wouldn't show soil, or was guaranteed to last a lifetime.
Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I'd have cherished every moment and realized that the wonderment growing inside me was the only chance in life to assist God in a miracle.

When my kids kissed me impetuously, I would never have said, "Later. Now go get washed up for dinner."
There would have been more "I love you's" More "I'm sorry's."

But mostly, given another shot at life, I would seize every minute...look at it and really see it . live it and never give it back.
STOP SWEATING THE SMALL STUFF!!!

Don't worry about who doesn't like you, who has more, or who's doing what. Instead, let's cherish the relationships we have with those who do love us. Let's think about what God HAS blessed us with, and what we are doing each day to promote ourselves mentally, physically, emotionally. I hope you have a blessed day.

Wednesday, April 11, 2007

In honor of Mikey....


In honor of Mikey.....On February 22nd, a sweet baby boy earned his angel wings. His name was Mikey. I met Mikey's mom through the T21 forum I belong too. I think of Mikey and his mom Danielle and their family all the time. What they went through and what they still go through on a daily basis, knowing sweet Mikey is in Heaven. Another lady, Connie posted this beautiful song and pictures of Mikey on her blog...and I've decided to add it to mine as well...in memory of Mikey and for others to see that life is so precious and each day to be treasured with your own loved ones. Tomorrow is promised to no one...sadly!:(


Dancing with the Angels by Monk & Neagle

Memories surround me
But sadness has found me
I’d do anything for more time
Never before has someone meant more
And I can’t get you out of my mind
There is so much that I don’t understand
But I know

You’re dancing with the angels
Walking in new life
You’re dancing with the angels
Heaven fills your eyes
Now that you’re dancing with the angels

You had love for your family
Love for all people
Love for the Father, and Son
Your heart will be heard
In your unspoken words
Through generations to come
There is so much that I don’t understand
But I know you’re dancing with the angels…

We’re only here for such a short time
So I’m gonna stand up
Shout out And sing Hallelujah
One day I’ll see you again

Sunday, April 8, 2007

HAPPY EASTER! HAPPY SPRING! HAPPY EVERYTHING!

We had a nice family get together for lots of good food on Saturday...there were about 18 of us...nice to see everyone!

The bunny made it here this morning...Connor was pretty non-chalant about it all...Tessa was excited to get a ball glove and ball..guess what she'll want to play alot:)

Lots of chocolate floating around here ...so far I've only eaten a Lisa Simpson chocloate....strange usually chocolate calls my name...it's being quiet so far...maybe that's a good thing:)
Here' some pics..mostly from today and yesterday...enjoy!
HAPPY EASTER!!!!
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Spring..Easter